My MC is going to sleep with the love interest some time soon. I have an idea of how it's going to happen, however, the catch with this is my MC is male. And an incubus ( think the male version of a succubus; a demon who feeds on the sexual energies of other people ). When he sleeps with women ( and he sleeps with a lot of women ), normally he doesn't really feel a thing. He's just focusing on them so he can get his meal and get out of there, so to speak.
However, when he sleeps with the love interest for the first time, he actually feels something. Both emotionally and physcally.
Here's the catch: being female, I have NO clue what a guy would feel ( both emotionally and physically ) when sleeping with a woman he really cared about.
However, if there are any guys out there willing to give me even just some clues, hints or pointers, it would be very much appreciated.
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Nov 28, 2008 - 19 24
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Nov 28, 2008 - 22 19
If it's always just a mechanical thing and he's never really felt anything before, I imagine that it would be similar to a first time. He'd be surprised by the physical pleasure, to the tune of "Wow, this feels good... holy crap, this feels *really* good!" and then he would start pursuing that pleasure, enthralled by it, not really noticing as it builds and builds. Will he be mature enough to communicate what he's feeling and ask her input on what he's doing, or will he basically forget she's there as he becomes blinded by his pleasure? If he's never tried, he might not have the skill to delay or savor his orgasm. There'll be a great release, but it might seem to come suddenly and be over quickly.
Alternatively, if he's very aware of how he feels for her prior to their coupling, he might feel performance anxiety that would make it very difficult for him to even get an erection, let alone climax. That would be frustrating and confusing, and make the sex very meaningful when finally accomplished, but also very difficult.
Another emotional response he might have -- which sounds stupidly simple but is profound nonetheless -- is that as they're fucking, he'll look at her and realize, "Wow, I'm really connected to this woman -- and not just physically!" The emotional bond will suddenly feel as tangible as the physical one.
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Nov 29, 2008 - 03 13
So essentially he's just a man? :p
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Dec 6, 2008 - 07 31
I'll try my best to give you honest feedback: Sex is just sex and quite recreational and fun and good for the ego and all sorts of things--that's most of the time. When an MC has sex with someone he or she is powerfully drawn to, however, that just wildly intensifies the experience, like he or she is going to go off through the roof of the head. It also makes for multiple orgasms, especially for women, and for quicker turnaround for men--because they are so thoroughly into it.
Guys who are into their partner can be nuts about going down on her, too, maybe even when they've never been all that much into it. Suddenly, guys can be slathering lapdogs, willing to do anything for her, spending times with tongue on toes, giving tongue sponge baths to her thighs, back, and derierre--not to mention breasts. They'll suddenly take hugh amounts of time and really relish the experience. They may also premature ejaculate occasionally, but that usually works out.
The head-over-heels MC will think about her, get positively arousing images in his head at various time, will want to carry around a pair of her scented undies in his pocket, will be driving with her and ask her to insert her finger inside herself and give him a taste. It's simply wild.
Sustaining that intensity, of course, is always the issue and ultimately the problem because the question is "if that intensity is lost, is love lost also?" He worries about things like that.